Мать 6 детей ненавидела свое тело. Однажды она подслушала разговор мужа с друзьями…

Австралийский фитнес-блогер Шарни Кизер — мать шестерых детей. Еще совсем недавно она стеснялась надеть бикини. А всё из-за того, что после родов на ее теле остались многочисленные растяжки, которые смущают даму.

She's so beautiful, especially when she smiles. Doing the laundry run in Sanur, Bali. #fitfamily #travelblogger #travelphotography #nomad #wanderlust #world #bali #fitness #fitmum #fitnessmotivation #kids #travelblogger #youtube #thekiesers @thekiesers

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Mule or superdad? ? walkin' the streets of #sanur #bali #fitness #fitfamily #travel #travelphotography #travelblogger #nomad #wanderlust

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«Я всегда думала, что нет никакого смысла заниматься спортом, если мое тело покрыто растяжками. Зачем мне нужно красивое тело, если я никогда не смогу носить бикини?» — вспоминает Шарни. Всякий раз, когда они собирались с друзьями возле бассейна, Шарни помогала на кухне или надевала футболку.

Next stop… Koh Samui ✈? #kohsamui #thailand #beach #experiencesnotpossessions #nomads #travelling #family #adventure

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In Australia, we used to rush the kids into the car, put the iPads on and try to park as close to our destination as we could. Now, this is how we get around. It takes a long time, but that time is filled with chatter and laughter (and some whingeing, fighting, crying as well as a lot of "I'm hungry"). Without the distraction and rush of car travel (with devices), our kids are learning more and talking more about what they see and feel. So much better than talking about what they saw on TV or YouTube. A million times better than not talking, and only watching the device. #travellingfamily #memories #nomads #walking #exploring #incidentalexercise #kohtao #paradise #thailand #thekiesers #fitdad #fitness #fitkids #healthylifestyle

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Однажды всё в ее жизни изменилось, когда она услышала разговор своего мужа с друзьями. Он сказал, что растяжки на ее коже — это символ материнской любви. Поэтому такого знака нельзя стесняться или называть его отвратительным. Именно в этот момент Шарни поняла, что она ненавидит себя по тем же причинам, по которым муж ее любит.

I used to not see the point in exercise because my body was covered in stretch marks. 'what's the point in having a great body if I will never wear a bikini' I'd think. If I was ever invited to the beach or a pool party, I'd always decline. On the odd occasion I couldn't avoid it, I'd stay inside, helping with the food or the cleaning. I would only wear board shorts and t-shirts. I wished so hard that I could one day wear a bikini. Then one day I overheard my loving husband explaining to a bunch of his friends why he thought stretch marks were beautiful. They were a sign of being a woman. They are a result of the great love a mother has, that she would scar her own body to bring a child to life… on and on he explained and the more he talked, the more I got it. I had hated myself for the very reasons he loved me. My body wasn't ruined or disgusting, it had transformed from a selfish girls body into a selfless mothers body and the scars were a symbol of that transition. A daily reminder that I was a mother. I looked at my stretch marks and I felt pride. I felt love. The love of my husband and the love of my children. Each one of them had been nurtured and lived behind those scars for 9 months. I felt pride. I felt love. I felt love for myself. The craziest thing was that when I started to love myself for what I had now, the body I had now, I began to treat myself better. I WANTED to eat healthy. I WANTED to exercise, I WANTED to do the things I loved. Just by changing the way I looked at myself with love and pride instead of hate, I had found the effortless motivation to care for my body. Because of this tiny little shift in mindset, magic happened… I got the body I had always dreamed of. The bikini body that I thought was not ever going to be possible for me after being covered in stretch marks, It has became a reality for me. It started though, with me loving myself first. Being grateful for what I had, not wishing for something better. ?[see comments for more]?

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Stretch marks, I used to hate them. Seal showed us that scars are beautiful. They tell a story. They are unique. My scar story is that I carried 6 babies in my body. That's 4 and a half years of my life I spent pregnant. How can I possibly hate myself for that? What's your scar story? (share your photos with pride!) #scarstories #stretchmarks #scars #travellingfamily #nofilter #travelphotography #thekiesers #youtube #wanderlust #nomad http://sharnyandjulius.com/fitmum

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Теперь Шарни понимает, что растяжки просто напоминают ей о том, что она мать. Каждый из ее детей по 9 месяцев «выращивал» эти растяжки на коже. Поняв всё это, женщина вернулась к прошлой жизни и начала делать то, что ей так сильно нравилось.

If you could just stop, for once, and forget about what other people think… about what is expected of you, about being mature… you'll realise that the ones that matter (your kids) just want you to have fun with them. Whatever the fuck that looks like. http://sharnyandjulius.com/fitmum #fitmum #travel #nomads #life #fun #adventure #beachfront #bomb #pool #family #life #funmum #memories #mumofsix #kohsamui @shiva_samui #familyadventuresummit

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Теперь Шарни не стесняется надевать бикини. Более того, она с гордостью демонстрирует всем свои растяжки, и плевать, что скажут другие.

As a mum it's important for me to be Happy, have Energy and feel Strong to keep up with my kids. I'm so grateful to have all this back in under 7 weeks. 11kilos gone and 1 week left of the #FHHM program! Love that so many mums and dads are feeling amazing again in only 8 short weeks ??? #fitmum #family #healthylifestyle #8monthspostpartum #6kids #wife #mum #mom #bikini this is a @bakuswimwear bikini ? #bakuswimwear

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The only gift a father needs is to know his kids are happy and safe. Happy Father Day to all the Awesome Dads!! #fitdad #dads #fathersday #husband #kids #fatherof6 #dadoftheyear #mule #packhorse #australia #boys #girls

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Муж Шарни смог показать супруге, что, несмотря ни на что, любит ее так же, а может, даже больше, чем в молодости. Именно так и должен поступать настоящий мужчина!

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